Truly hurt from the break up

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Registered: 02-06-2004
Truly hurt from the break up
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Thu, 02-12-2004 - 8:19am
My boyfriend broke up with me on this past Sunday because he claims he wasn't happy, and when I asked him why he kept saying I'm a good women for him but he didn't know why he wasn't happen, but I felt that was just a cop out. But my issue now is that I still love him and miss him and wish he were back in my life. I've mentally decided to just focus on me, and forget about dating anyone, and emotionally I feel like men are full of crap, because of being hurt so much by men. Everytime I try to say to myself I'll be alright and get up and go on I find myself wanting to cry. I just can't believe it's over with he and I, and I wish he would come back in my life again, but at the same time I'm feeling like I can't stand all men. Does anyone have any counseling they can give me.
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Registered: 09-26-2003
Thu, 02-12-2004 - 12:16pm

Have faith that this will make you a stronger person in the end.


Its okay to cry, its okay to hurt, to be upset.How long you let yourself mope and what you do about the outcome of all this and what way you direct all of this energy to is whats important.You are gonna have your good days, and you'll have some bad.Most likely, its gonn aseem like you have more than bad and have so many lemons for making lemonade you could quench the thirst of a small army.....things will get better