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am i crazy??
| Sun, 02-15-2004 - 5:16pm |
Hey there everybody!! Wow what a rough valentines day... not the sweet and romantic one i thought it would be. I need your help. I need to know if I'm being crazy and freaking out for nothing or....... Ok so last night me and fiance go to see the movie ''monster''. I dont know if you have seen it, but its about 2 lesbians and one that shoots people left and right. Anyways, a few times in the movie the two girls go at it. Jokinly, i lean over to my bf and tell him not too get too horny and he laughs. Later on that night we were talking about the movie and he tells how much that turned him on. I was apalled. How the hell can he be turned on by some psycopathic killer, ugly one at that, making out with some other crazy chick.. I dont get it. I was soooooo hurt. Of course, when we went to bed last night, he was getting all cuddly. I felt tottaly disgusted. Of course he wanted sex, he was all horny at the movies. Then he tells me im frekaing out for nothing and that he thought i knew that he gets turned on watching tv shows. just normal tv shows. Frig.. i think thats so gross.. and then he'll come to bed all horny cause of some other chick. SHouldnt he only have those feelings while hes with me.. IM so confused. I feel like I'm his little play toy. please, i need some input!!

Carrie
LoLowebbs
Sometimes we as women, have to just realize that men are visual and we are not so much.
Please dont let it be an issue. Maybe explain how you feel when he says these things. I dont know, but I hope that it helps. Take care.
PlayNICE
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..please someone tell me this post is not for real...
I'd say there's something definitely wrong with a bloke who does not get turned on by two women engaging in, shall we say, intimate activities... surely noone over the age of 13 would expext their partner to just sit there feeling absolutely nothing and saying 'ugh, this is gross, I only look at YOU this way' or some such nonsense...
Carrie