Men who mess up in the beggining of a...
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| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:16am |
Men who mess up in the beggining of a relationship can be trusted again?
- Yes
- No
- Depends on the situation
You will be able to change your vote.

My BF committed adultry at least four times during his marriage to his first wife. I also committed adultry one time during my marriage to my first husband. The saying is "once an adulterer, always an adulterer". Well, we have been together for more than six years now, and neither of us have been unfaithful. We made a committment to have therapy, to read relationship books together, to put our relationship first before anything else. I trust my BF to the ends of the earth.
ocgirl, we have not promised to be perfect for each other. We have not promised to stifle every natural urge we have. What we have done is promised ourselves that in this relationship we will behave as adults and not act on those urges. Growing up is hard to do sometimes, but it is "possible".
Pam
Pam
The choices we make in thought, word and deed inevitably return to us in kind.