bf doesnt kow what he wants
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| Fri, 02-20-2004 - 11:23am |
About a month ago, he told me he's not sure of what he wants anymore. He says he loves me, but doesnt know if he wants to be with me. That crushed me, he was the strength in the relationship, he knew what he wanted before I did.
I know in my heart that he is the one for me, and I want to be with him for the rest of my life. At times I feel like giving up, just ending it and if he want to come back later he knows where to find me, but he's not ready for me to give up.
He loves me now, but not like he used to, and I still love him completely. eventhough it's been the hardest month ever. I feel like I'm giving all of myself, but not getting the love I need in return.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? Should I wait for his decision? Should I put an end to the relationship?

Reading material to consider:
How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together: Breakthrough Strategies to Resolve Your Conflicts and Reignite Your Love by Sue Ellen Page
A Couple's Guide to Communication, John Mordechai Gottman
Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix
Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw
His Needs, Her Needs by Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr
The 10 Second Kiss, Ellen Kreidman
Loving Solutions, Gary Chapman
Carrie