Romance?

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Romance?
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Mon, 02-23-2004 - 3:08am
Is there any way in turning a platonic relationship into a romantic relationship? I have a male friend who I am starting to have feelings for. We've been friends for a nine months now and over time I've have enjoyed talking to him via phone and e-mail. We don't see each other that often. I think we've seen each other about once a month. He works alot. We talk on the phone or e-mail each other every now and then. I would like to get to know him better on a romantic level. I don't feel we are connected on an emotional level yet but would like to get to that point if there is a chance. We only talk about trivial stuff like how his projects are going; how is work; etc. How do I get to a point where we are connected at another level and not scare him away?

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Registered: 09-26-2003
In reply to: trustlove8
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 12:06pm

Its great that you want to take this relationship to the next level, but it has to be a mutal feelin for the both of you, otherwise it'll never work.have you told him of your feelings?Does he feel similar?try not to rush things, but if this is something your sure about, I would somehow try to talk to him about it...Good luck!!