Ex-Girlfriend woes..
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| Tue, 03-30-2004 - 10:12pm |
He went, came back, I asked how the ex-girlfriend was and told him I was jealous. He said she was fine that he had met her husband and 2 kids and that I had nothing to worry about.
Then several months later, I found a greeting card labled 'for the plane' on his dresser with emails from the ex-girlfriend. The card said things like 'I still love you' and 'if you ever need me, feel my pull from within'. There was a homemade business card with her picture and hearts on it. I was furious. The email to my husband was from before they met there and said things like 'I don't know if I can handle seeing you - can you handle seeing me?'. She implied that she wanted to spend the day alone with him.
I confronted my husband who told me that this girl was having marital problems at the time he was over there. They went out, he bought her dinner, they rode the ferris wheel, then they went to a bar. It was there that this girl asked my husband to sleep with him.
I was shocked. I feel so deceived. I believe that he knew she was making suggestions before he even went there. I feel so upset that he didn't tell me even when I asked if there was anything I needed to worry about. What would have happened if I hadn't found that card?? I'm so angry at this girl for doing this behind my back and at both of them for threatening our marriages.
Any words of advice?

Be mad at him for loving her attention she lavished on him. She was looking for an easy way out of a bad marriage. He betrayed you, not her.
Insist on marriage counseling and no contact with this woman by him.
Edited 3/31/2004 5:20 pm ET ET by itwinflame
Carrie