Can we stay together and live apart?
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Can we stay together and live apart?
| Sat, 04-03-2004 - 5:51pm |
This is the first message I have posted here...I am in total misery. My boyfriend of a year and half left me on wednesday. We had been living together for about 8 months. I am a law student, and he is just starting part time classes again, and is also training for an athletic competition this summer. I know that our lives have become overwhelming and I also know that I haven`t been great about responding to his increasing need for space to get his own work done. We have spoken once since the break up and talk on instant messaging once a day (it`s been four days since he left)-- he tells me he loves me and misses me.
I am so unhappy and I want him to come home, but I recognize that maybe it would be better if we lived apart for awhile. Does anyone think that its possible to get this relationship back even though it would seem like we are taking a step back by living apart? We have not yet discussed the possibility of this...and I don`t know how to bring it up, or whether I should wait for him.
I`m so miserable...can`t eat or sleep....
Any help? Please?
I am so unhappy and I want him to come home, but I recognize that maybe it would be better if we lived apart for awhile. Does anyone think that its possible to get this relationship back even though it would seem like we are taking a step back by living apart? We have not yet discussed the possibility of this...and I don`t know how to bring it up, or whether I should wait for him.
I`m so miserable...can`t eat or sleep....
Any help? Please?
