I was snooping...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
I was snooping...
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Mon, 04-05-2004 - 7:18pm
I did an ultimate no-no and now, I am suffering... My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 6 months now. Today, he accidently left his wallet when he went to work. I just couldn't help but take a peek. I know I should have NEVER done it. Well, I found 2 girls phone numbers on the same piece of paper... So, now, I am absolutely livid at the idea that he has phone numbers in his wallet. He is a bartender at a restaraunt and is very good looking. I am aware that girls are going to slip their phone numbers to him... but why did he keep them?? So, what do I do now?? Do I say something and tell on myself for looking through his things, causing an even bigger fight? Or do I keep my mouth shut and suffer the consequences? Help!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: scoutrb
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 12:21am
I would not say anything yet. I'd just keep my eyes open and be more aware of what he is doing. Give him the bennefit of the doubt. If you say anything it might turn into a huge fight. Good Luck
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2004
In reply to: scoutrb
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 11:42am
Lay low and give him the beneift of a doubt. He could have just not thrown those numbers away yet. Or maybe they were for something other than dates (I know, he works in a bar, but maybe he has them for some other reason). I think it will cause more trouble than it's worth to confront him, especially since right now you are the one in the wrong for snooping. I definitely don't think it's wise to make accusations with no proof. You will destroy any trust he has for you.

Keep an eye out for anything strange from him, and no more snooping!

Good luck and keep us updated,

Ivy

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