so lost

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Registered: 01-05-2004
so lost
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Tue, 04-06-2004 - 11:12pm
ok i dont even know where to begin i had a fwb who wanted a relationship and i cut off all ties with him and now with ym current boyfriend we been together for 3 months and this weekend went away we had sex for the first time and it was completly horrible never in my life first he didnt know how to put a condom on hten he couldnt get hard then we finally get into it and he cums in two seconds literally i am so turned off and i just been avoding him i know its horrible but i dont know what to do he is 23 and i think by then a guy should know what to do at least some what experinced and he siad he hasnt had sex in a long time and im ok with that but now im totally tunrned off and i dont know what to do anyone have any suggestions is this nornmal?
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Registered: 04-06-2004
In reply to: beddamafia
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 12:42pm
If you've been together for three months now, it means there are other things in common. Sex can be teach. You should talk to him and tell him what you feel. Be sincere and try again, next time, you put the condom.