I'm not sure if we are together... HELP!
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I'm not sure if we are together... HELP!
| Wed, 04-07-2004 - 12:17pm |
I've been dating this guy for two months now. He just divorce. I know I'm the only one in his life and we spend a lot of time together. Sex is great. My problem is that in public we are just "friends". We are both in the same college and some days ago I found him in the library talking with a girl, after I left she told him "That girl likes you" refering about me. He told her, that i was just a friend and that he doesn't think I like him. Then he went to me and told me everything about it like if it was joke. He laugh and said "She'll never know how much we like each other". It's obvious that people notice how much I like him, but they don't notice is mutual. I hate to feel that I look like the girl in love that isn't corresponded. When he was telling me about what the girl said, I reply "Maybe she likes you, too" and He said that he was going to ask her(joking all the time, trying to make me jealous), then he said more seriously, you now that I can't have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship right now. Then I tried to joke about it and I told him "Isn't what you say, it's what you demonstrate" I know he likes me, I know that he is only with me, but why is he so scare of making our relationship public and more serious. I try to act as the more mature woman and be patient, let him decide what he wants and feels, but I'm getting desperate. Can anyone tell me the intelligent way to make him commit without putting any pressure on him, that can make him go away?
Edited 4/8/2004 12:00 pm ET ET by migdaliav
Edited 4/8/2004 12:00 pm ET ET by migdaliav

You two are in different places. He is just out of a marriage and doesn't want a relationship like you do.
Either be happy with what you have or move on.
You're the college girl hanging around someone who wants sex, fun, companionship and options - while you want commitment, security, and love.
That is why everybody knows how you "feel" about him - you prioritize him, you include him, he's uppermost on your agenda. You're not on his...he's saying in private that he likes you because in private he does - in bed.
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com