Am I overreacting?
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Am I overreacting?
| Thu, 04-08-2004 - 12:06am |
I am new to this (hell I am new to a lot of things this year) and i will try to keep it short as possible. Few background info. I am 25 and in my first relationship. He has been in a previous long term relationship. He was engaged to this girl but broke it off because she was cheating on him and she was very controlling (he ended it a 2-3 yrs ago). We have been dating a month and a half and so far its been really good. We talked. We went out. I went to visit a friend for the weekend and he called the whole time i was there. Didn't bother me at all. But when i saw him the day after i got back, it seemed to change. all of sudden he kinda just stopped calling. He used to call all the time now he just stopped. It could be becuase he is tired because of his job. When I call him it seems like he doesn't want to talk. I asked if everything is ok between us and he said everything was fine but it seems like its not. I could be totally overreacting. Like I said this is my first real relationship and I don't want to be appear clingy or needy. Hell I am not even sure I am doing anything right. Could it be some kind of guy thing where he calls and calls and then when he realizes he has me, he tones it down a bit? He is just an amazing guy and I really don't want to screw this up. He has sort of talked about the future...nothing major just minor minor things. I am not trying to put too much thought into it since its still new but its nice you know. Could he be testing boundries? As I said his last relationship, the girl was very controlling and didn't let him do anything. Is there a possibilty that he may be trying to test boundries? Maybe trying to see if I can get controlling like her? Or clingy? I am just trying to figure this out without trying to sound some freaked out girl and calling him every 5 minutes asking how he is doing and what he thinks of us. My friend said to wait a couple of days and see if he calls. Unfortunately its killing me and I want to call him. If anyone could give me some feedback or advice, please do so. I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks
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| Thu, 04-08-2004 - 8:07am |
Do NOT CALL HIM! Men hate clingy, needy women. Let him come to you.
