HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX??

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Registered: 04-14-2004
HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX??
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Wed, 04-14-2004 - 9:40pm
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Edited 4/26/2004 12:01 am ET ET by sexy_lips
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Registered: 04-15-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 1:24pm
I believe a question of why did you break up would be a fair question but I choose in your poll the try to move on. But I myself am in the mist of a bad breakup if you have read my message and poll you will already know by now of what I speak. But in all open honesty if you are thinking about him, do you still have feelings for him? Maybe should you to try being friends? If there was an agreed breakup where you both felt it was going no where maybe as friends you may discover why you dated in the first place. If it was an abusive relationship I would save not to run but be careful of what he does when you feel ready to date again because some guys I have been victim to threaten new guys. And if it was one of those I just don't know why it happened relationships talk it out. Maybe you will care more for another or you will discover why you weren't working out.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 1:53pm
It's always hardest the first few weeks, so let yourself grieve some. But don't do it alone--hang out with your girlfriends! Try to have some fun.. at first your mind will constantly be distracted by the ex. But eventually you'll find your thoughts dwelling less and less on him. This has always worked for me. Since you live so close to him, it might also help to stay busy and out of the house when you can. (since hanging around and seeing him all the time will only make it harder)

With time, pain lessens..I hope this helps!

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Registered: 04-14-2004
Mon, 04-19-2004 - 10:41pm
WELL I BROKE UP WITH HIM BECAUSE I CAUGHT HIM CHEATING ON ME 2 OR 3 YEARS AGO., AND I STILL WAS MESSING WITH HIM EVEN WHEN HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND OR JUST F*U*C*K*I&&NG FRIEND. SEE HE LIVE ACROSS THE STREET FROM ME AND IT HARD I MOSTLY SEE HIM EVERY DAY. I WENT THROUGH HELL WITH HIM.HE USE TO LIE TO ME AND TELL ME WE ARE GOING TO GET BACK TOGETHER WE NEVER DID, I HAD ABORTION WITH HIS BABY BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT IT. ALL HE DO TALK TO ME TO TRY TO HAVE SEX. AND I STILL LOVE HIM AND I AM TRYING TO GET OVER HIM. TRUST ME IT MORE BUT I JUST DIDNT FEEL LIKE TELLING U THE WHOLE STORY IT WOULD HAVE TOOKING U THE WHOLE DAY TO FINISH.
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Registered: 04-14-2004
Mon, 04-19-2004 - 10:43pm
THANK U I WILL TRY THAT