To tell or not to tell?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
To tell or not to tell?
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 9:59pm
I am a 19yr. old female. I am in a long distance relationship, because my boyfriend is in the navy. He has been underway (out to sea) for two months. And two weeks ago, we broke up because of difficulties. The weekend we broke up, I had sex with another person. My boyfriend and I then got back together. Yesterday, the same guy I have had sex with, we did it again. I never wanted to cheat on my boyfriend; however, this has happened in all of my past relationships. I really love my boyfriend, but I don't know if I should tell him what has happened. I do not want to hurt him, because I told him I would not cheat on him. We have only been together for two months, but before that, we had a long distance phone conversation for about 6-8 months. I am just getting over another relationship. Please help so that I can know what to do. I have a bad conscious. What should I do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 6:34am
sweetie - i understand that you are hurting and sad. but i think that