Dumped without an explanation
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| Sat, 07-03-2004 - 1:08am |
He seen me with a guy friend which this friends refuses to meet my x at the time we were together. My x seen me with him and called me on my cell. I did not answer it knowing to get drilled with questions, and i didnt return his call. That was it, he dumped me and we have not spoken since.
I've seen him a few times at the gym, and i get sad when i do. I guess he's joined another gym, because i have not seen him in a month. Im trying to date other guys, but they dont compare to my x. I have dreams and thoughts that run through my mind all day long. Things i see and do remind me of our times together. The 4th is coming and we spent the last 4th in the sand at the beach watching fire works all cuddled up. I want to call him, but i dont want to get lashed
This sucks

Even if you weren't cheating, it looked like it to him. Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie
Perhaps you could do the same thing. Write the man a letter. It allows you to express that which you cannot say face to face or over the phone. Explain the situation between yourself and the best friend and that you regret him taking the situation the wrong way. If nothing else tell him you at least deserve the courtesy of having an explantion of why the two of you broke up. That way things will be out in the open. He'll either call you with an explanation of why things worked out the way they did or he'll ignore you. Hopefully he is like my SO and will give you a call. This way at least you are not in limbo and you will get some type of closure.