game playing

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Registered: 07-06-2004
game playing
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:41pm
I have been dating someone for 7 months and twice in the 7 months he will make plans on a weekend without me - which is fine, but then I start to plan weekends without him he then wants to spend more time with me and calls me more .How do I stop this stupid game?

Whether he gets scared or needs his space - ok but can't he just level tell me without the game.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2004
In reply to: girldoc2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 11:51pm
It sounds to me like he has insecurity attacks when you make plans without him. He's probably imagining you meeting someone else. Women do that all the time. He may not want to tell you the truth (if he's even aware of it) because it's hard to admit. So don't try to stop it. Just make your plans without him once in awhile. Make a point to call him while you are gone. He'll get used to it.