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| Thu, 07-08-2004 - 11:01am |
Hi everyone. I am 22 and have been dating the same guy for 6 years...for a little while we were on and off but we've been together officially again for almost 2 years.Here's my problem: I have been wanting to get engaged for about a year now.My boyfriend says he wants to get engaged also,but he's been telling me it's going to be "soon" since last summer. In May he told me it would be before i went back to college in August,and last night he told me that for a few weeks now he has decided not to ask me before I go back to school.I am very hurt because I have been looking forward to this so much,and again he has let me down. We've looked at rings together,and we talk about marraige and he talks about the things he wants us to do together when we get married(travel,get a dog,live in a nice apartment,etc). I dont know why he wont just ask me!! We're each others' best friend and we love each other so much...and I just dont understand it. Should I give up on him?? Does he just not want to get engaged to me??Any help would he wonderful.Thank you
Laura

My former cubemate, put his girlfriend off after she found the ring she wanted. He ordered it without telling her and proposed when it arrived. She was very surprised and happy.
You have to ask yourself, with or without a ring are you where you want to be?
Carrie