what /who do I believe
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what /who do I believe
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 11:01pm |
I will try to sum this up in as few words as possible... I have been in a relationship for 4 years with a man who has a child with another woman..Off and on during opur relationship he has either not told her we were together or has just flat out lied to her about us being together.. Last summer I finally told him that it was over and I started dating someone else for about 5 weeks.. To make a long story short he moved mountains to prove to me that he wanted to be with me including telling her I was the best thing that ever happened to him and that he wanted to be with me to also us moving in together... Now since I have moved in with him his sons mother and I were seemingly getting along pretty well I also became pregnant and had a baby in April of this year and she seemed to be handling that pretty well.. Well the other night I heard a message from her on his cell phone of her just calling and saying hi.. well he must have never called her back so she left him another message asking him if since hewas being so honest with me lately was he going to tell me that they had been sleeping together pretty much since I have moved in with him... well i asked him and he admitted to sleeping with her in Oct/Nov of last year and says it only happened once but every time he does something that makes her angry she threatens him with telling me... So I guess my question is Am I being naive to believe that it only happened that one time??? I have asked him a million times to just tell me the truth if it happened more than once I told him once or a hundred times the pain is the same and he insists it was only that one time... HELP

Carrie