What can I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2004
What can I do?
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Sun, 07-11-2004 - 5:40pm
I am writing from my boyfriends account. MY boyfriend and I were at a birthday party we both got really drunk and towards the end of the night he got really mad and started yelling at me. I don't really know why but he started humiliating me in front of all his friends. Since then He has apologized and said how sorry he was. I still love him and I know that he loves me but ever since then I am no longer sexually or emotionally attracted to him. I don't want to touch him or want him to touch me. What can I do about it? Will it ever go away? Or are we doomed to just end the relationship?


HELP

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
Sun, 07-11-2004 - 8:19pm
Olemiss I can see why you have lost your desire for him I would not like that either. Some people when they drink mellow out and others get mean and want to fight. Your boyfriend sounds like the latter type person. If drinking alcohol is going to be a part of his life I think your life together is going to be unplesant unless he finds a way to change.