what do these dreams mean???
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what do these dreams mean???
| Mon, 07-12-2004 - 8:58am |
I have been trying to tell myself that this is nothing, but it keeps on happening and I can't get it off my mind! I have been having re-occurring dreams for about 8 months. Over and over again, I wake up after having dreams about my ex-boyfriend of 10 years. The dreams mainly have some element of marriage in them. Whether it be him (my ex) trying to marry me, him marrying someone else and me being upset by it, him try to stop me from marrying my current boyfriend.....it goes on and on. Marriage or relationships in general always seem to be the main point in every dream. But rarely in the dreams do I want him, it's more like I am trying to get away from him, or I am mad at him. We haven't been together in two years. Other than the occasional sighting we rarely have contact. I have been dating my current boyfriend for the past year and a half. He is everything I have ever wanted in a man. We want to get married, have children, the whole nine yards. We live together and love every minute we spend together. I can't express how much he means to me. In all honesty, he makes me feel great. Can anyone give me some advice on the following: 1- what on earth do these dreams mean, and why do they re-occur so frequently? 2-should I feel guilty for having these dreams, I kind of feel like I'm being promiscuous through my dreams 3- should I tell my boyfriend about them??? Please help!! Thank you.

Deal witht the feelings the dreams bring up - the anger in the dream, you trying to get away, etc. Think about what you haven't let go of from that relationship? Dreams mean many things on different levels.... unresolved feelings, him sending you energy, trying to contact you, subconsciously, etc. So, after you have searched yourself for those unresolved issues.... write an UNSENT letter to him about what you feel, burn it. Say a prayer at night asking for the dream to resolve itself and go away. And if you would like a form letter regarding forgiveness, email me at onetwinflame@hotmail.com
Carrie