am i ruining our relationship?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2004
am i ruining our relationship?
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Tue, 07-13-2004 - 12:41am
my boyfriend is a great guy and our relationship is better than any other relationship that i've had before. i really couldn't ask for more...but for some reason, i always seem to make up problems that we don't have, i know it sounds weird. everything could be running smoothly and i'd get mad at him or get all upset over the littlest things. why do i keep doing that?! he gives me no good reason to be this way...is anyone else like this?!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2004
Tue, 07-13-2004 - 12:58am
Are you raised in a dysfunctional family? Had other relationships filled with negativity and drama? I think you are good to realize what you are doing. Possibly this is your first good relationship with a "normal" human being. Which is why you are realizing your flaws.

And you need counseling right away to get over those bad habits which will ruin any "good" relationship.

Call a counselor tomorrow. If you don't you will make it impossible to keep good men. Only bad or addicted or abusive men will be attracted to you. Or maybe wimps. Please heal yourself with counseling so you can continue this good relationship! And you will feel so much better being able to use good loving communication! You are precious and do not need bad communication and mannerisms to sabatage all your good relationships. Good Luck!