How long to wait for love?
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How long to wait for love?
| Fri, 07-16-2004 - 11:31am |
My Bf and I have been together for 8 months and he doesn't love me. He is great and he is so good to me that it is hard to imagine that he doesn't love me. But we talked about it and he says he isn't sure. He told me that he wants to love me - which is just about the worst thing anyone has ever said to me. It just emphasizes that he doesn't. He said that we haven't known each other very long - but it seems like long enough to me. It really bothers me. It is like a broken record (or a scratched CD for the younger people in the audience) it keeps repeating over and over in my head "He doesn't love me, he doesn't love me." I guess it is so important to me because no one has ever loved me (romantic relationships I mean, family and friends love me). Do I pick men who can't love? Or is there something about me that is unloveable? In many ways it is a very good relationship and, like I said earlier, he is great and good to me. How long should I wait? Could it be true that he does just need more time? Or after 8 months are we just kidding ourselves? I want to be with him, but I also want to be loved.
Jessica

But know that just as you wont fall i nlove with every man, neither does every man! It has nothing to do with you, just compatibility.
You know what they say, 50% of the battle is finding someone your compatible with and the othr 50 is being at the same 'place'.
Good luck and don't sell yourself short.