i cheated, he forgave me...now what?
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| Tue, 07-20-2004 - 11:23am |
I have been dating a wonderful guy, John, on and off for about two and a half years now. Last fall he had an internship in Maryland, and before he left we had a big fight. After he left he basically ignored me, never called, never emailed, nothing. I assumed we were through and started dating someone else, Chris. Well, in December John came back and begged me to give him a second chance. I still loved him so much that I couldn't say no, but I also had developed feelings for this other guy and didn't have the heart to end it with him. So I dated both guys for awhile and was sleeping with Chris, mostly because I just wanted revenge on John. After a few months I realized that Chris wasn't what I wanted and dumped him to be with John.
Well, John recently found out about my relationship with Chris. He has agreed to give me another chance, but now I just don't know what to do or how to even act around him. Should I just be myself and pretend the whole thing never happened? Should I just give him some time and space? I'm so confused I don't know what to do. I love John with all my heart and never, ever want to hurt him again. Please help me with this. What makes matters worse is he is in Maryland now and I am in Michigan. He comes back in the middle of August. I just don't know where to begin rebuilding our relationship. Can anyone help me?
| Tue, 07-20-2004 - 1:15pm |
