He wants time
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| Wed, 07-21-2004 - 4:07am |
Suddenly two weeks back he came to me very upset stating he needs more time to work things out. He feels we have a numebr of differences and may not be happy together. He agrees that he loves me lots and that we have the same ideals, beliefs, values and we even enjoy doing similiar things. I do have a bad temper but i have been working on it and even he agrees that there has been an improvement.
I thought that he would treat this as a break but he is behaving very normally and is being quite nice to me as well. He calls me 5 to 6 times a day and behaves like nothing has changed. I have cut back on my contact though.
I know marriage is not easy and i have promised that i will do everything to make it work. I know it is impossible to make someone understatd that things will work. He has to figure that for himself.
I just keep feeling like there is something i should do or say but i dont know what. I dont want to pressurise him and yet i dont know if giving the cold shoulder will help. I am trying to understand how to reach that balance and at the same time get him back. I dont want to appear desparate either.
How do i handle the situation in a manner that i know he will come back forever.
Edited 7/21/2004 8:06 am ET ET by rosequartz2004

good luck ~ best of wishes
The article is perfect for me and i realise that i have been making some mistakes. I hope though that things will work out soon.. It has been one and a half months now and though i feel that there has been some progress i really dont know where this will go.
I just dont know how long to wait before i actually walk out.
any ideas??? please help... so far your advise has been spot on.