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what can I do
| Thu, 08-09-2007 - 5:56pm |
I was married to my husband for 20 years I divorced him about 7 years ago. We are back together, have been for the past 2 years. He has a ED problem, and also like alot of pono. I have tried to help him to cut this out. He does not wan t to have sex with me. He has also told me that he will have a relationship with me when I get a job. I think that is so wrong, its like saying to a woman, I will marry you if you lose 50 pounds.
I just don't know what to do

Welcome back to the board pie0072007,
Ah, he won't have sex with you until you get a job? Sounds like an excuse to me so he can continue with the porn and he doesn't have to deal with the ED.
Here's your previous post:
Am I dum or Stupid?
What are you getting from this relationship? Have you worked out the issues that caused you to get divorced?
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Why don't you have a job?
I ask this not because I think you should appease him so he'll have sex with you, but because it doesn't sound like a good idea to be married to this man without a fall-back plan.
I don't have a job, because I have had two neck surgery's, the first one was in 2005 I had a artifical disk put into c-5 c-6, and it started to wrap around my spine, so in oct of 06 had it taken out and had a fusion. So I know have some problems from that, which I am working on with the doctors.
And he does not want to get married, but wants me with him for the rest of our lives, I don;t think that will happen.
I need someone to hug me once in awhile..