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| Sun, 08-19-2007 - 7:52pm |
Hi,
I am a 43 yr young man that has been married for 21 yrs, recently I have met someone through the place where I work that makes me feel like a teen again. Nothing physical has happened between us yet but what I am confused about is that it doesn't feel wrong like it should. I have never cheated on my wife in all our married yrs so wwhy do I feel like this?
My current situation is that sex is a once monthly thing and my wife makes it sound like a chore, she never initiates it and she is always around which makes me feel smothered.
I am a 43 yr young man that has been married for 21 yrs, recently I have met someone through the place where I work that makes me feel like a teen again. Nothing physical has happened between us yet but what I am confused about is that it doesn't feel wrong like it should. I have never cheated on my wife in all our married yrs so wwhy do I feel like this?
My current situation is that sex is a once monthly thing and my wife makes it sound like a chore, she never initiates it and she is always around which makes me feel smothered.

I am a 43 yr young man that has been married for 21 yrs,
Congratulations! 21 years of marriage is quite an accomplishment!
recently I have met someone through the place where I work that makes me feel like a teen again.
OK. That's all good and nice that she makes you feel "like a teen again". Really what does feeling like a teen again mean ? FREE? NO "BALL & Chain?
Nothing physical has happened between us yet but what I am confused about is that it doesn't feel wrong like it should.
If nothing physical happened then it's not going to feel wrong.....YET.
I have never cheated on my wife in all our married yrs so why do I feel like this?
You have been married since you were 22 years old ... This makes me wonder if you ever got to actually "be a teen" . Did you get to have the experience of dating other women?
Welcome to the board haldace,
Since this is the Ask the Relationship Saver board, are you asking how to save your marriage? Or looking for approval to have an affair?
Will your wife go to marriage counseling with you or read some good relationship books with you?
Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman