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| Mon, 08-27-2007 - 3:22pm |
Well me and my boyfriend have a son. He broke up with me when I was 5 months pregnant. But now 8 months later we are trying to be together again. And that's what I wanted. But now he won't have sex with me because he is scared he will get me pregnant again.. which I would understand but in those 8 months that we were apart he had sex with like 5 other girls which he could have just as easily got them pregnant.
Also he says he cares about me but all he does everytime I go to his house is play video games or watch t.v. So pretty much he ignores me the whole 8 or so hours I am there with him.
So my question is do think there is anything I can do to make things better between us or are we just not ment to be and should I just break things off with him before I get seriously hurt... AGAIN!!

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Welcome to the board lettersbad,
Would he consider going to counseling with you are reading some good self-help books?
Reading material:
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis
Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman
Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw
Welcome to the board lettersbad,
To me it sounds like he is too immature to handle to responsibility of being a parent. You can use protection so you don't become pregnant again.
Why did he break up with you when you were pregnant? Has he been involved with his child?
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He broke up with me because he says he wasn't attracted to me any more. Also we allll know that he broke up with me because he wanted to have sex with other girls.
And he didn't start seeing his kid until he was 2 months old.... so about three weeks.
Why would you even want to get back with someone who broke up with you when you were pregnant with their child so they could have sex with other women? Then he doesn't even see his child until it is two months old.
You deserve better and so does your baby.
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Welp for an update for everyone. Last night he stood me up, probably cheated on me and is probably back to his parting ways.
So now I am at home with my baby having a very sad day. It just sucks where I live, there isn't a single DECENT man anywhere to be found. And I am just one of the those kinds of girls who like to be in a relationship. I love the feeling of being well felt, loved. And I love loving people.
I know I deserve more than his crap. It's just tough. But now it is really over. Really really over.
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