Vacationing w/EX????????

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Registered: 04-21-2005
Vacationing w/EX????????
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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 7:32pm
Hello Again,
I don't know if anyone recalls my last entry so I'll do a quick recap. I left my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years because he upset me, he's moved in with his womanizing cousin and since he moved in with him, he has done a complete 360. Before he was the attentive, family, considerate, home body kind of guy. Now, he's the inconsiderate, takes all the furniture, lying, cheating party animal that I would never be with. He has disappointed me, lied to me and cheated on me (in the past 2 months) since I moved out of our home that I now regret ever meeting him.
My new problem is that we're suppose to go to Aruba this FRIDAY and I'm contemplating not going. How could I spend another day with a man (a boy) whose hurt me, lied to me and cheated on me? The trip is already paid for by BOTH of us and I would lose out on my $$$. He says to go as friends but I don't even consider him a friend. What kind of friend would do such things. Can anybody offer me any sound advice? Thank You.

Aly

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Registered: 11-22-2005
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 9:45pm

I would talk to the travel agent or hotel where you will be staying and work to create SEPARATE vacations. Yeah - I wouldn't want to hang around him either but I also wouldn't want to miss out my vacation because of him. Make the lying cheating, SOB pay for the separate room.

Good luck!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 10:31pm

Welcome back flamily,


Here's your previous post:


Failing Relationship


I agree with simystic

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-28-2007 - 12:47pm
Yep, I agree. I'd either talk to the travel agent and see about staying at a different hotel or resort - maybe even pay a little extra to do so, or cut my losses entirely and not go. The money's already gone, but you still have your dignity.