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Avoidance
| Tue, 02-05-2008 - 6:13am |
I want to know how to deal with someone who avoids confrontation to the point where they would rather avoid talking about an issue than salvage their relationship.

Welcome to the board superwoman2008,
Since he not willing to talk to you about the issues in your marriage, do you think he would be read about it if you wrote it all out in a letter or email to him? You could explain what you think the problem is, how it makes you feel when he won't talk to you about it, and what solutions you think could solve the problem. Then you could ask him to either write back to you or talk to you about it. Just a thought anyways.
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'Just recently he asked me if I still wanted to go to counseling, and I said no.'
Then you aren't invested in saving the relationship. Go. Talk about the hypnobirthing class. Talk about all of the other communication problems too.
So sorry for you!
Welcome to the board superwoman2008,
I agree with Gina - go to therapy and discuss what happened.
Thanks for all your advice.
I think I was blind to it when I first met him.
No offense taken. LOL
You interview them, you talk to them, you find one that is a good match.