Need Advice PLEASE

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2008
Need Advice PLEASE
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 4:00pm

Im not sure if Im even posting this in the right section, but I

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 5:24pm

Welcome to the board ayshren,


Would your husband be willing to go to marriage counseling before calling it quits. It would probably also be a good idea for you to do some individual counseling as well.


I don't understand why you quit your job when you moved back in with him?


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:07pm

Welcome to the board ayshren,


Most couples cannot overcome betrayal (even though you were separated) and rebuild trust without professional help.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2008
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 1:42am
I had to quit my job, at the time we were living 5 hours apart. So, I came to live with him. I have asked him about us getting professional help and he always says no. I think it might help us, I mean it couldnt harm the situation. We will just have to see what happens.