So tired, lost and confused

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Registered: 11-23-2007
So tired, lost and confused
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 7:53pm
This could get a bit long.
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Registered: 10-07-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:09pm

I am only 22 and never married, so take my opinion with a grain of salt...

Have you TRULY considered that your ill feelings about your husband have been magnified by the fact that you are now in love with someone else? Do you know yourself well enough to trust in the fact that you no longer are in love with your husband nor will you ever be again? Have you made considerable efforts to explain your unhappiness to him?

If you are completely 100% honest with yourself, you'll be able to make a clear decision. I can't in good conscience advocate for you to stay in a miserable marriage simply because divorce is "bad." But you need to be very considerate of your husband's feelings. You owe him that much.

That wasn't much advice...but good luck!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:34pm

Welcome to the board lovestoned1979,


When dealing with someone that has an addiction, it's not likely that anything will motivate him to change as he likes his life and how he lives it.

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 10:25am

Dear Lovestoned...,


I am so sorry to read about your predicament.

Perky007