Need some advice with husband

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Need some advice with husband
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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 2:46pm

Right from the start I will say this will be long-


My husband and I are still young-early 30's. We have been together from high school so we have never been with anyone else in a serious relationship only each other. We have three kids and for almost 15 years a great relationship. If there was a

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 10:21pm

believe me they can change just like that.

CherMac612
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 12:48pm

Welcome to the board mysticsoul73,


Would he be willing to start some individual counseling and then you could move into marriage counseling together.


Perhaps this affair with the girl at work made him feel like he missed by on dating other people??

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 2:21pm

Welcome to the board mysticsoul73,


Emotional intimacy fuels sexual desire. My guess is the minute he started talking to her, sharing with her on a level that was inappropriate, his feelings for you changed.