the past is eating us alive :(
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the past is eating us alive :(
| Sun, 02-17-2008 - 3:03pm |
my husband and I have been together for 7 years. 5 years ago (prior to marriage) I cheated on him
The whole matter seemed to be a grey area, since we enjoyed many 3somes with

What are the questions he repeatedly asks?
I think that your DH isn't upset so much that you had sex with another man, I think he's upset that he didn't get to watch. After all this time, he's being ridiculous. He encouraged the "cheating" in the first place, and the fact that he didn't get to watch a couple of times is just splitting hairs.
You are right that he doesn't want to get over this. I don't think he has anything to "get over", and
Welcome to the board goddessmeg25,
::I came clean and vowed to earn his trust back.
Most couples cannot overcome betrayal and rebuild trust on their own without professional help.