Am I stupid or what?

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Registered: 02-19-2008
Am I stupid or what?
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Tue, 02-19-2008 - 9:54pm
Well where do I start, I have been with my husband for 8 years married for 6 and we have 2 children. I have 2 step daughters now too and a MIL that I have never been good enough for. I have put up with crap from his girls the whole time being with him, and his mother dont even get me started she has never liked me from the get go because she did not want her son to move on and be over his first wife. His x is still very much part of thier life and she does everything with my husbands 2 girls, has yet to do anything with our kids! I thought it would get better the girls are gettign older now in thier teens but it is still bad and the girls are getting worst, constantly trying to break us up, always fighting with me, I am just at my wits end I dont know what to do. Part of me is tired of it all and just dont want anything to do with any of them anymore and dont want my kids around that negativity either. The other part of me is saying that I will not let them break us up and just go with everything and bite my toung. But I think I am tired of that. I dont know what to do am I stupid for thinking that it will all work out or should i just relize that between his girls, mom, and x-wife I am at a losing battle? Please any help out there any suggestions I will take them. I am 26 and have 2children of my own and 2 step that are 12 and 13. Its just been very difficult. To top it all off his
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 02-20-2008 - 12:18am

Welcome to the board jmcbjc,


Where is your husband in all this? Where does he stand?