Not really a problem, but a situation
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Not really a problem, but a situation
| Fri, 02-22-2008 - 6:47am |
My b/f of 1.5 years has serious chronic back pain.
He refuses to get the surgery that has been suggested.

Oh boy - I just sent him a very lengthy text telling him that he is pushing himself, hurting his back more and he won't be able to see anyone!
I can't say strongly enough how bad an idea it is to bring up/discuss important relationship issues by text!
At least have a phone call if you can't wait to say what you have to say in person--which would be the best option by far.
In any event, it sounds to me like this situation of only seeing each other once a week is temporary.
Yes you are so right about having other support in place.
He has told me that himself many times.
I think you are on dangerous turf with that "if you loved me" stuff.
Thanks for being there for me today northwestwanderer!
There are alot of underlying issues I have here.
Anyway, we talked at length tonight and you are absolutely right it has been a situational thing for the past month and it was wearing on me big time and I did
Honestly, I am a woman (not grown - probably mentally about 17) and just because