Serious Help

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Registered: 04-15-2007
Serious Help
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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 9:36am

Good Morning,


I have put a couple post up in this message board and i just want to thank everyone for getting me through some very tough times. Once again i find myself at a crossroad not knowing which way to turn. I dont even know where to start off that this wont be long. i am 20 years old (Please dont judge my age as you read this) The love of my life is 21. We have been best friends since middle school. We dated on and off but got very serious in high school. About a year after highschool we had gotten engaged. My dream was to be engaged very young for a long time about 4-5 years and then get married. I wasnt in any rush to get married. So after that abotu two months later his parents had an apartment in their basement and we moved in. We lived there for about a year and long story short he felt iwas suffoccating him so i moved back home and he move back into his parents house. Two days after we broke up i called one of his friends (out of anger) and i hung out with him and we kissed. THe whold night all i thought of was My highschool love. After the kiss i felt so wrong so i went home. The next day my highschool sweetheart called me and long story short he was hurt. I told him nothing had happened between his friend and I. I lied. i know lieing was wrong but i did not wantt o hurt my love. He found out and we worked it out. we have been together since then for about 8 months and he told me he needs his "space" so

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: tina13s
Sat, 02-23-2008 - 1:12pm

Welcome to the board tina13s,


:: I would give him space and not call him but he has told me that if i stop calling him hes goign to think i dont want to be with him.


Not nice that he puts ALL the responsibility on you.