I've got a problem

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Registered: 01-24-2007
I've got a problem
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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 6:59pm

I was deeply hurt a little over a year ago. We reconciled after about 6 mos apart, but I ended things again a few months after that.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 11:40pm

Hi lovergrl18,


You can't tear down the wall until you really forgive him for what he did, until you feel secure, really secure that it will never happen again.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 2:03pm

Welcome back lovergrl18,


I think what you really need is to spend some time by yourself. To reflect on things, to learn about yourself, and to heal. The good thing is that you realize you have a problem. That is the first step towards making things better.


Best of luck to you.