No you are are not crazy or over-reacting. His behavior with an empolyee and comments he's made about her were unprofessional, inappropriate and way out of line.
Thank you so much for validating me and my feelings, I am unable to talk to anyone about this in fear of worrying relatives and friends, and I don't want to tarnish his reputation as well.
I've actually told him that I thought he was having and emotional affair with this person and he assures me he is not.
You do not have to live with this and should not. It's not an appropriate relationship and not at all respectful to you. He absolutely can and should fire her. If he doesn't, he is not respecting you. You have a real situation here, because you have every right to make this request/demand of him. It seems as if you have not been able to stand up for yourself in the past, or to acknowledge that you had a right to feel the way you did. Boundaries were not set. However, just because you didn't do it in the past doesn't mean you should not do it now. Create good boundaries, develop self esteem. Clearly, you can't do this out of the blue and so I strongly suggest that you see a fine therapist who will help you in this matter. You need guidance in receiving the respect you so richly deserve, not only from him but from yourself.
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Welcome to the board befriendme,
I am confused. Did he started another business? How could her rehire her?
I don't blame you for being upset. Is there a way since he can't fire her that she could get a different position and not work so closely with him?
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Welcome to the board befriendme,
No you are are not crazy or over-reacting. His behavior with an empolyee and comments he's made about her were unprofessional, inappropriate and way out of line.
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Thank you so much for validating me and my feelings, I am unable to talk to anyone about this in fear of worrying relatives and friends, and I don't want to tarnish his reputation as well.
I've actually told him that I thought he was having and emotional affair with this person and he assures me he is not.
You do not have to live with this and should not. It's not an appropriate relationship and not at all respectful to you. He absolutely can and should fire her. If he doesn't, he is not respecting you. You have a real situation here, because you have every right to make this request/demand of him. It seems as if you have not been able to stand up for yourself in the past, or to acknowledge that you had a right to feel the way you did. Boundaries were not set. However, just because you didn't do it in the past doesn't mean you should not do it now. Create good boundaries, develop self esteem. Clearly, you can't do this out of the blue and so I strongly suggest that you see a fine therapist who will help you in this matter. You need guidance in receiving the respect you so richly deserve, not only from him but from yourself.
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