Is this cheating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2008
Is this cheating?
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 8:30am
Hi -

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 8:36am
If it's not acceptable to you then it's not acceptable to you, and that's the bottom line. I wouldn't call it "cheating" since you're right there and he isn't really doing anything to deceive you, but if you don't like it then you have the right to say so whether he pouts or not.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2007
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 11:12am

i dont want to create a whole new post. i was at the bar with my boyfriend too this past weekend for our friend's birthday. the guys all went downstairs to get shots and everything, a bunch of us stayed upstairs by the music. i headed downstairs with my friend and saw that he was

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 11:36am

Welcome to the board sunflowermom35,


No this is not cheating.


Why did it make you feel uncomfortable? Do you have any reason not to trust him?


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2008
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 12:32pm

Maybe I felt uncomfortable because it seemed that he was taking advantage of the situation (me drinking & us being at a bar).

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 6:19pm
People can either look shocked because they're guilty, or because they have no idea that they're doing anything wrong
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2003
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 9:42pm

He wasn't cheating... and I do think you were/are over-reacting.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 9:58pm

I disagree.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2003
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 8:30am

Is this cheating? no.


Did he do anything wrong? no.


Should he stop because you don't like it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2008
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 9:18am
Thanks a lot everyone.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 03-11-2008 - 9:51am

"Maybe I felt uncomfortable because it seemed that he was taking advantage of the situation (me drinking & us being at a bar)."


Curious choice of words.

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