need advice

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Registered: 03-10-2008
need advice
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 6:15pm

I am a young mother of two beautiful children. My son is from a previos marriage. My daughter is from a new realtionship. My now boyfriend father of my daughter is very hard on my son who is 3 by the way. He constantly says I give in to everthing my son wants and throws a tantrum over. I'll admit I do sometimes because I am just stressed. BF also says it is like two different families mine with my son and his with our daughter which is totally untrue. How can I make him realize if its going to work he has to stop being so angry and we need to work together.


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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: katb1981
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 7:39pm

Welcome to the board katb1981,


Agree with him to a point and ask him to take a 'parenting class' with you through a counseling service to get help presenting a 'team' approach to parenting.