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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
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Wed, 06-04-2008 - 12:22pm

Hello,


I could really use some help. I am really hurt and sad and I really feel like giving up on my marriage. Yesterday was our 19th wedding anniversary and I was really excited about it. I had planned a romantic dinner and put candles in the bedroom, had a sexy nighty to wear and a few little sexy gifts for him.So he gets off work takes

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: gal_keya
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 2:05pm

Welcome to the board gal_keya,


That's tough since it's been going on a long time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
In reply to: gal_keya
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 4:54pm
Have you thought about going away for the weekend with no friends to call him for help or the kids needing something...just you and him?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: gal_keya
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 1:35pm

Welcome to the board gal_keya,


I like the other posters idea about going away together for a weekend. That could really be helpful. Is is possible that he forget it was your anniversay. Granted after 19 years he shouldn't forget, but some men are that way. Next year you might have to remind him that it is coming up and not to forget to plan something. I know women don't want to have to do that, but sometimes it is necessary.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
In reply to: gal_keya
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 1:35pm

Thank you for the welcome and advice :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
In reply to: gal_keya
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 1:44pm

Hi,


This is something I would love to do. I will have to talk with him about this. It does feel like he is open and willing to do anything for anyone (kids, friends, co-workers) as soon as they call or ask he is off doing what ever they need. I would love to have him all to myself .


Thanks:)

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
In reply to: gal_keya
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 2:10pm

Hi and thank you for the welcome :)


Nope he didn't forget