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will he come back to me
| Sun, 06-08-2008 - 6:00pm |
hello...i recently posted about my boyfriend and i who broke up because we were not moving forward in our relationship. after three years, i felt like we were emotionally stuck and not growing together. he

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Hi ffechter,
Read this:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=22130.1
Depends on how the summer goes. None of us can really predict the outcome.
It's not a great sign when
Maybe he was upset with himself for not being able to return your affection in a way that felt true to him. His love for you is not something that can be persuaded with anything than just being yourself. Don't be mad at yourself for giving it your all, in the end the failure is not you. Not every couple is meant to be together, even ones who have invested a lot of time. This guy has a lot to figure out, I imagine that this break is probably for good but I hope you are able to hold your head high and realize that you did the right things.
When you give your heart and soul to someone, it is a gift. And a gift is something you give knowing that it may not be reciprocated. Don't blame yourself for it, hearts can be mended with time. But you are suffering a loss and grieving. It's okay to feel sad.
i sent my ex a book called "She Wants a Ring--and I Don't Wanna Change a Thing : How a Man Can Overcome His Fears of Commitment and Marriage" by James Barron. It got really good reviews.
DO YOU THINK THIS WILL HELP?????????????????????????????????????
If he was sending you books, pushing you do to something you don't