100 club!

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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 6:07pm
Hi.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 6:15pm

Welcome to the board shellyjones1976,


Well, you have my sympathies as being a member of the 100 club by choice is way different then having

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Registered: 06-10-2008
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 8:53pm

Thanks for the reply so quickly!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 11:38am

Yes, this is a Huge problem. You're not actually dating this man, you are friends. He has some kind of real sexual problem and unless he gets professional help, it's not going away.


The real question is how you can remain in a relationship without sex for all these months? You deserve a real relationship with warmth, sex and fulfillment. If he cannot provide that, and doesn't go get the help he needs, then you have every right to find someone who can. Basically, at this moment, the two of you are just friends anyway.


All good wishes,

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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 9:33am

hi shellyjones1976,


this must be really frustrating for you.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 10:41am
What are you actually getting out of this relationship if you don't have sex, you don't communicate well and you are drifting apart?
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Registered: 06-10-2008
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 1:59pm

Thanks for the reply drshoshanna.

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Registered: 06-10-2008
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 2:07pm

Thanks pinkstar2008.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 2:32pm

Welcome to the board,


Does he have any sexual desire at all? Do you know if he is masturbating? If not, this could be a sign that something is going on with him health wise. Ask him to make an appt with a dr to get check out and make sure everything is okay.

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Registered: 06-10-2008
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 2:52pm

I ask myself that same question some times!

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Registered: 06-10-2008
In reply to: shellyjones1976
Fri, 06-13-2008 - 3:03pm

Thanks for the reply.

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