Tottaly Confused Just Need A Friend
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Tottaly Confused Just Need A Friend
| Thu, 06-12-2008 - 9:29am |
good morning everyone. i just really need someone to talk with right now/vent to. ive been friends with this guy for five years. we dated for 6months and broke up cause he was tired of hearing me always complain how he cancels things on me whether its for work or his friends. not once in awhile it would be a lot. anyway i also didnt like the fact that he wanted to keep his personal life to himself and when the time came he would share with others what he thought was nessacary. im not use to that so i didnt feel comfortable with it and he of course never showed me anything to have me feel secure i guess the word is. anyway were still friends and time to time we do sexual things and he says how he misses me when we are doing that and when we arent he says it too. we have cute little pet names for one another and were pretty close he tells me more things basically then anyone else. he likes to run his mouth and i get hurt cause i take it personal which wouldnt anyone if they keep hearing that over n over again his mouth running saying rude/mean things when he gets pissy about something? i get hurt and i get emotional, our friendship and him are very important to me i enjoy having him in my life and without the opening his mouth saying crap times things r good. i dont know what im trying to get to hear i guess i just need to get this out maybe but id love to hear feedback from an outsider. i go to see him where he lives which is an hour away.

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hi there
thanks for the reply and reading my post.
he isnt always mean to me and im not the only one he opens his crappy mouth to. we dont always have sex either and if we do usually im the one who starts something but
because we are good friends and we have a nice time together
its not always bad unless he gets angry n loses his patients then he says crap he doesnt mean but i take it to heart cause i get emotional and etc with things i guess. he doesnt only do that with me hes like that to his family as well.
Welcome to the board giggles8333,
He's got it made.
And he will continue to be like that as long as you and his family put up with it.
I don't believe "that is just how he is"
hi and thanks
well its not over if i mention something n get upset or if he upsets me cause im sensitive n stuff. we always find our way back to one another. he usually either comes back or i do or its just both. its like no matter what we say or do to one another we both seem to want the other to be in our life so we just have it happen.
he usually does it when he is ready, work hobbies family and friends come before me which bothers me but i accept it but at times it does get to me. but when he knows im hurt n stuff he usually tries to make it better and things like thta when he is ready to.
like crap happend last night and this morning he was trying to make it better n im sure later when he gets home from work he will as well. its just him and im not the only one who he treats crappy when he gets bothered with his mouth with the words he says when hes bothered.
hi there
yes and i tottaly agree. but for some god for sacken reason i keep coming back. last month i told him this was the last chance cause he said something thta was the worst he could say to me and i said thats it no more.. and then three weeks later i talked to him again n i figured we could chat time to time only and then i of course value our friendship so i was like alright ill hang wit him but nothing is changing and i told him that too that what he did was wrong n i wont allow it again. then he was showing me how he wants to have me there n stuff n he dont want me to go away n etc. so then the other day n last night happend and now i feel i wasted my money going out to see him which is where i am now and like its only been bad time now causeof those things thta happend the past two days now. i told him lastnight thats it n stuff u had ur chance but like hes all nice nice today n i know he dont want me to go away n stuff n its just actions speak louder then words and he only truly shows me stuff unless im going to go away itslike he sees it fineally then n its like oh i don twant this i need to let her know i dont know thats how i feel. sometimes of course he shows me when its not a see ya type of thing too but its not alot. we have good times together but when he gets annoyed he says crap out of no where n its hurtful and i know he doenst mean to hurt me or whomever but he just does thta and its like he has no contral its nuts.
Hon,
hi and thank you
yes i know what ur saying and i know it sounds like i am making exscuses im sorry to have u feel that way. its just who he is though and i try to accept it its just i dont know what else to do. for some reason i cant seem to stay away and he cant seem to stay away either. we always want to b with each other. and were sad if we arent.
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