Should I stay or should I go

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2008
Should I stay or should I go
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Thu, 06-12-2008 - 1:11pm

Hello,


I have been married for 8 years and just had a 6 months old baby.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 1:17pm

Welcome to the board meams2008,


This is a hard one because of course he should be involved in his daugthers life. However, he shouldn't be blaming you for all his problems and neglecting you, your child, and your marriage. I do find the fact that he hid the fact that he was seeing her from you for a month a bit weird. Not to mention the fact that he only visits her at her house. I would think that he would want to do it at your home.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2008
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 1:44pm
No I have not met the child.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 1:56pm
I agree with you. I think he should hire a lawyer and get child support and custody worked out. If her mom is really that messed up, then his daugther might be better off living with you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 2:28pm

Welcome to the board meams2008,


While it's admirable that he wants to be part of his daughter's life, he's sure gone about it in a deceptive and harmful way to his marriage.