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Should I or Shouldn't I
| Wed, 06-18-2008 - 12:58pm |
Hi,
Well where can I start? I've read some of the post and seems like everyone these days are in a committed relationship when only one person is "really" committed. Well after I thought my relationship was doing way better wrong I was.
He just turned 28 (no kids), I'm 29 with an 8 yr old.

Welcome to the board munchkin2006,
No you are not wrong for feeling left out. It is normal to want to spend some quality time with your partner. You just need to ask yourself if you are happy in the relationship (which it doesn't appear you are) and if not can anything be done to make you happy in it again.
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Hi,
You are completely right I'm not happy at all.
Munchkin
You have every right to feel as you do. He sounds very immature and not at all ready to take on a committed relationship. Also, it sounds as though you are both quite different, enjoy different things and have different needs and expectations for a relationship.
The real question is why you don't trust your own feelings? If you feel badly, not well cared for, kicked to the side, why do you doubt yourself and remain in this negative situation? It's important to know what you want, need, deserve and expect in a relationship, to set standards and to see to it that those standards are met. It's one thing to like or love someone, it's another to be able to build a healthy, satisfying relationship with them. That takes two people who are mature and on the same page.
Let go and go forward to find someone who is more mature and can give you what you want and deserve.
Best wishes,
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Dr. Shoshanna,
You are so right.
Munchkin