too much pressure on "us"

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Registered: 07-14-2002
too much pressure on "us"
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Fri, 06-20-2008 - 5:51pm
my boyfriend of three years (live together for 2) and i broke up about a month ago becuase he said i put too much pressure on him over marriage. we spoke last night and he said he still loves me but has felt relieved over the past few weeks that the pressure is off. he said that he doesn't close the door on us and that i should just relax and let things unfold naturally...that too much stuff happened and we need to heal before we can get back together...(or even consider that)...i agree, but i'm wondering...if i really did too put too much pressure on him, do you think in time he will ever want me back...or have i ruinded it forever?
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 6:45pm

Can I ask how old you are? And if it's true that you made it clear that you wanted to be married to him?

It's ok to go back to him if the relationship you want doesn't involve marriage in the near future, but you will always remember how he acted when he felt that marriage might be on the horizon with you.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 1:19am

Here are your previous posts:


will he come back to me


Breaking Up before Marriage


I answered you on the other board.





angels

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Mon, 06-23-2008 - 12:24pm
Are you willing to sacrifice your desire to be married?

 

 

 

 

 

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