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dont know what to do
| Fri, 06-20-2008 - 8:52pm |
my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 4 years now. last saturday we got into a fight and he said that we broke up but i did not know about that. well now when i ask him if we are together he says i dont know or i guess. also when i tell him i love him he says okay. when i ask him if he loves me he says i guess or i dont know. he has recently changed all of his interests and made a "guys night" EVERY friday, saturday, and sunday...also he wont let me see his phone or anything that is his. i cant even look at anything in his truck. what is wrong with him or us? can somebody help me? i want to save our relationship

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Sounds as though he has met someone else or just isn't interested.
Have you told him that you want to work on the relationship? You guys need to have a serious discussion about whether or not you're going to continue.
Well, I wouldn't ask him if he loved me ever again. That's never a good question unless you're saying "uz oo wuv me too" in a cutesy baby voice, in which case it's a fine question but disgusting to witness.
In your specific case, I'd also stop telling him you love him. Love is a two way street. If he wants a casual relationship, give him casual.
Welcome to the board lhs2007,
I agree with all the advice you got, from he's either seeing someone else, interested in someone else, no longer interested in you or hoping you will do the breaking up.
He's pushing you away, probably because he wants you to get fed up enough to dump him so that he doesn't have to.
Stop the I-love-yous, tell him that you can't go on like this and it's over. Then, actually move on from him.
Trust me, the longer you stay the more resentful and unhappy you will become. You really do not want to stay with someone who doesn't love you anymore.
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