Long Distance Relationship

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Registered: 06-20-2008
Long Distance Relationship
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Fri, 06-20-2008 - 9:05pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 three years. His job has offer him a

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 1:06am

Welcome to the board ajs25,


Long distance relationships aren't for everyone.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 8:26am

You seem to have made up your mind about this. As the other poster said, not everyone can do a LD relationship. When I had to move away to find a better job, I told my boyfriend that I couldn't do a relationship where I was 8 hours away. He moved to be with me and we live together now, but if he hadn't I would have broken up with him.

Tell him how you feel and let him know that you're not trying to convince him to stay for you. Wish him the best. Perhaps one day in the future you will be reunited - but if he has to go and you have to stay, you know what the right answer is for you.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 8:49am
You DEFINITELY don't want to move to Florida until you've finished your Master's--getting started in a new program would be very difficult. When you've completed your coursework and your research, you might consider moving while you write your thesis, but it still wouldn't be easy.
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Registered: 03-01-2008
Mon, 06-23-2008 - 12:22pm
I commend you for realizing where you want to be and not letting anything sway that.

 

 

 

 

 

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