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Long term relationship
| Sun, 06-22-2008 - 6:12pm |
My boyfriend relocated across country to Las Vegas. I was supposed to follow him after my divorce. Well I got my divorce and a week later as I was packing up and getting rid of my belongings, he sent me an email basically dumping me. Now he won't speak to me and I really am confused as to what is going on. We were not arguing at the time, in fact we hardly ever argue. The only thing that I know is that he wasn't happy because when something went wrong I was making him feel guilty. We were together for 9 years, so I don't just want to give up. I've been emailing him to try to get him to talk to me to no avail.

My husband and I were seperated for 9 years because I could not afford a lawyer and he didn't want a divorce.
No, my boyfriend and I have talked about getting married. I don't know anymore specifics, because he refuses to answer my emails.
Welcome to the board smooch64,
Sorry you are going through this.
First of all, stop emailing him.
He may have met someone out there.
He may have freaked out because now you are (truly) available, and about to move there.
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I hate to tell you but 3 weeks for a 9 yr relationship and considering the way he broke it off isn't long enough to completely heal.
Sorry you are going through this.