Is any type of Relationship Possible?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2008
Is any type of Relationship Possible?
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 10:39am

I am new here and need some advice.


To make a long story short I met the man I wanted to spend my life with over a year ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:14am

You owe it to your daughter to go to court and get child support. They're trying to intimidate you into raising your daughter on your own with no support, but he needs to be responsible for his part.

Apart from any interactions mandated by the court, I would stay clear of him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2008
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:35am

I am so so sorry you are going through this. This should be a happy time and you are trying so hard to keep it together to be a good mother, and I commend you for that.


You need to get a laywer to file for child support and deal with all the threats. There are things you can do in the law to take care of this. You have a right to child support. You do not have to deal with the threats either.


I do think you need to steer clear of him completely. If you do try to have a "civil" relationship with him, the threats will continue and it WILL start affecting your daughter. I do believe that one good parent is better than two bad ones, no matter what the case is.


Keep you head up, and stay strong! I think you already know what to do. Protect your daughter and yourself. You can do it!!! Let us know how it goes!!


Sara

"Seek to understand and you will be understood"

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 11:48am

You got immediately involved with a confused, married

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 1:25pm

Welcome to the board saracu2005 and thanks for participating.





angels

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 1:38pm

Welcome to the board meg_aly,


Sending you a HUG first.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2008
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 10:48pm

Thank you all for your advice.


Things have only gotten worse.


10 hours from now we make our first family court appearance.